So how can you insult me all day then kiss me. How can you call into question me as a father, me as a Christian, and then ask me for help so you can go on a date. I understand divorce is about changing, coming together, working as one to better life for eachother and the kids. How do we when you live within the moment, what feels good for the minute is not what’s good for the long haul. I have nothing to say when you tell me i am unwelcome, and then you want to put your lips on me in lust. I am speechless.